Finding Peace in a Shaky World

“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit”—Romans 15:13 (NIV).

A ringing phone after midnight jolted me from a deep sleep. Expecting to hear one of my sons on the other end, I jumped into action when I heard the recorded voice telling me to take cover immediately. At the same time, I heard the tornado sirens blaring. Grabbing my glasses, my dog and my bed comforter, I headed for the safest place in my house—a long hallway.

My heart raced as adrenaline kicked into survival mode. Lying in the hallway, I could hear the strong wind and blaring sirens as my dog and I huddled under the comforter. For what seemed like an eternity, I lay there praying. After the sirens and wind ceased, I headed back to bed, but could not sleep. Turning on the television, I listened for updates as the storm moved across northeastern Oklahoma. Communication with the outside world via Facebook and texting on my cell phone kept me connected with friends and family who were still in the path of the storm.

Storms of all kinds can keep us from finding peace in a shaky world. Two recent national incidents not only destroyed lives but also rattled our peace. With the Boston Marathon bombing and the explosion of a Texas fertilizer plant, people across the nation have heavy hearts.

It’s hard to comprehend the hideous act in Boston but within hours of the bombing, Internet chatter claimed that a “dark-skinned male” was in custody. The 22-year-old Saudi Arabian student was recovering from the blasts in a Boston hospital while police raided his apartment. Other media followed, raising the alarm and suspicions that the perpetrators were “brown-skinned.”

Premature reports like these led to incidences of insults and beatings heaped on “dark-skinned” foreigners who had no connection to the event. A Palestinian woman in Boston was assaulted by a man who said, “You are terrorists! I hate you! You are involved in the Boston explosions!”

The rush for indictment and revenge is not the answer, nor does it bring peace in a world so desperate for understanding. For some, a prayer vigil or service was a way to gather with others to spiritually support the bombing victims, the city of Boston, and even pray for the perpetrators. For others, it was a way to seek answers—or peace, in the face of unsettling evil.

America has suffered much at the hands of both foreign and domestic terrorists. We have become suspicious and fearful. Being fearful, however, robs us of our peace, a peace only found when we are grounded in our faith through spiritual practices like reading scripture, prayer and being part of a faith family. Our faith should lead us to reach out to the hurting, to the disenfranchised, to the lost, to the poor.

Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “Peace cannot be achieved through violence, it can only be attained through understanding.”

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Weathering the Storms of Life

“God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble”— Psalm 46:1(NIV).

For my first 16 years, I lived in Louisiana where preparing for a hurricane meant boarding up windows, stockpiling fresh water and non-perishable goods, checking the first-aid kit and having other necessities on hand. Residents were urged to have an evacuation route before the storm hit.

After moving to Oklahoma, it became necessary to prepare for another type of storm—a tornado. With a tornado, the window of opportunity to prepare is not as wide as it is with a hurricane. Therefore, a different plan of action is required. While an emergency kit and a family communications plan are encouraged, one must be constantly alert to changing weather conditions. Tornadoes can spawn rapidly so advance warning is crucial.

While it’s important to be prepared and to know what to do in case of an emergency, unexpected catastrophic events can occur without warning. We think our lives are running smoothly when an unpredictable storm leaves a path of destruction and suffering behind.  Life’s storms can come in the form of a cancer diagnosis, job loss after years of being a faithful employee or unexpectedly losing a loved one in an automobile accident. Living with someone who has a drug or alcohol addiction, the death of an elderly parent, having a child diagnosed with an incurable disease or experiencing the death of a spouse can shake up our world, leaving us grasping for hope.

We have a checklist to prepare for natural disasters. But what about a life storm? Are you spiritually prepared to weather the storms that come your way? Being spiritually grounded means we can face calamity with a peace passing rational understanding. Even in the midst of pain and suffering, having the right resources to guide us through the storm will result in calm.

How do we spiritually prepare? By spending time in conversation with God each day, listening for His voice, we will naturally turn to Him in prayer in the midst of any emergency. Prayer brings comfort and peace, sustaining us when we need it the most.

Second, having knowledge of scripture helps bring solace in times of trouble and can be an important tool during times of darkness in our lives. My favorite is the 23rd Psalm. Another is Romans 8:38-39: “For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

Finally, to be spiritually prepared for the storms of life, we need to participate actively in a community of faith. By worshipping on a regular basis and investing in the church with our financial gifts, time and talents, we have a family of faith to support us in times of trouble.

When we are spiritually prepared, we can say confidently, “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.”

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Are You a Loser?

“But whatever were gains to me I now consider loss for the sake of ChristPhilippians 3:7 (NIV).

“I think everybody should get rich and famous and do everything they ever dreamed of so they can see that it’s not the answer.”

When I read the above quote in “Guideposts” magazine, I was more than surprised at the source. Why? Because I am seeing a trend as more celebrities figure out that fame and fortune is not the answer to a joy-filled life. Actor Jim Carrey, famously known for some distasteful movie roles, is the man behind the quotation. I admit Carrey’s a brilliant actor. His statement gave me hope.

Hope is what we need in a fallen world. The standard dictionary definition of hope is “to feel that something desired may happen.” Those two words, “feel” and “may” are vague. For example, we might say, “I hope it will not rain on Saturday because we have a baseball game,” or “I hope my car will start today because it’s been giving me trouble.” We might also say, “I hope I get that job because it means a bigger paycheck.”

However, in Scripture, the word, “hope,” has a precise meaning for believers. According to the Hebrew and Greek translation of the word, hope is an indication of certainty. “Hope,” according to the scriptural use means “a strong and confident expectation.”

A synonym for expectation is anticipation. Romans 8:24-25 states, “For in hope we have been saved, but hope that is seen is not hope; for why does one also hope for what he sees?  But if we hope for what we do not see, with perseverance we wait eagerly for it.”

What do you await eagerly? Is it the next sporting event? Maybe it’s the release of a highly-publicized movie everyone’s talking about or the next big thing in technology, soon to be replaced with an updated version, leaving that one obsolete?

Many believe that Christianity is on its way to becoming obsolete. A 2012 Pew Report revealed that one in five adults in this country have no religious affiliation. Theories abound with the rise of those claiming “none,” when asked about their association with a religious institution.

Can the church, made up of imperfect people, be one reason for this decline? Many rebel against an institution that does not practice what it preaches. Without attacking any church or group of individuals, I would like to challenge devout churchgoers to examine their lives in light of Christ’s command to go and make disciples of all nations (Matthew 28:19).

The philosopher Socrates said, “The unexamined life is not worth living.” Lent is a time for self-reflection, a time to examine your life, and ask questions like, “Where is God on my priority list?” “Am I willing to make sacrifices in order to grow in my relationship with Him?” “Do I attend church out of social duty or do I really want to be a disciple of Jesus Christ, losing everything for His sake?”

Will you say, “Yes?” The answer will determine your future.

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Is Prayer Your Last Resort?

“This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us” 1 John 5:14 (NIV).

“Dear God, thank You for the baby brother but what I prayed for was a puppy.” I laughed when I came across this child’s prayer while searching a website recently.

Do you think this child has grasped a truth about prayer? She prayed openly and honestly about what was on her heart. She wasn’t concerned about following certain prayer rules or praying “right.” She was confident that God had heard her prayers, even if He hadn’t answered them the way she wanted. She knows prayer is simply talking to God.

With heads bowed and hands folded, several second graders at a local elementary school were praying in their classroom. When the teacher inquired about their prayers, the children replied, “We’re praying for a friend who is having surgery at 10:45 this morning.”

The teacher responded by praying for the child also. Sharing this story, the teacher said, “I looked up at the clock after praying and the time was 10:45.”

Most children are naturally open and aren’t afraid to ask questions. Maybe that’s why it’s important that they have an understanding of prayer at a young age. They can talk to God anywhere at any time about anything, just like these seven-year-olds were praying for their friend.

I love to hear my grandchildren pray before we eat. Their prayers are simple and sincere. My youngest grandson, who is three, not only prays for the food but he thanks God for his puppy and his pony. Sometimes, he also thanks God for all of his family members, calling them all by name.

Adults can learn a lot from children when it comes to prayer. Children have strong faith. They trust easily, especially their parents. Why can’t we trust in our Heavenly Father like that?

Clergyman and author, E.M. Bounds wrote, “I think Christians fail so often to get answers to their prayers because they do not wait long enough on God. They just drop down and say a few words, and then jump up and forget it and expect God to answer them. Such praying always reminds me of the small boy ringing his neighbor’s doorbell, and then running away as fast as he can go.”

Do you spend so much time doing everything else that you have no time left for God? No time left to pray?

Author and Christian minister, George MacDonald, once said, “How often we look upon God as our last and feeblest resource! We go to Him because we have nowhere else to go. And then we learn that the storms of life have driven us, not upon the rocks, but into the desired haven.”

God is our haven, an ever-present help in trouble. He asks us to bring our concerns to Him in prayer and He will act upon it according to His will. Coming to Him with a sincere heart, we leave with a peace that defies circumstances.

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Enter Your Password Please

“Everyone who believes that Jesus is the Christ is born of God, and everyone who loves the father loves his child as well” 1 John 5:1 (NIV).

My frustration level was high recently when I tried to pay an online bill. I knew I was typing in the correct log-in information, including the password, because I had purchased an Internet Password Logbook several months ago to corral all of my sensitive data in one place. Designed like an old-fashioned address book with tabs, the black book is perfect for keeping track of the websites I use that require a user name and password to access accounts.

I write my passwords in pencil because I change them frequently to protect myself from hackers who like to get their hands on people’s secrets. Keeping my passwords handy makes things easier, even as life has become more complicated and overwhelming at times. As I was trying to log-on to this particular account, I checked and rechecked my password to determine if I had it right. I did. Finally, I had to seek help at the site through chatting online with an agent.

Multiple log-on tries and 20 minutes later, I was able to access my account and pay my bill, but only after I had earned several more grey hairs. I’ll have to schedule another hair color appointment soon anyway.

In our high-tech society, life has certainly become more complicated. I could pay my bills the old-fashioned way with an envelope and a postage stamp. However, the irony strikes me because even though technology can make our lives more complex, it does simplify some things—like bill paying. I don’t have to worry about purchasing stamps very often, nor do I have to make a trip across town to the post office, where I have to stand in line as long as 20 minutes sometimes. I do have to admit, however, that standing in line at the post office has taught me patience.

Even less complicated is our communication with God. We only have to remember one password, Jesus, and it never changes. Through Jesus, we can have a personal intimate relationship with our Heavenly Father. Hebrews 4:16 says, “Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.”

Isn’t it nice to know that when we are hurting, frustrated, lost, angry or overwhelmed, we have a God of mercy who understands our every need. We must remember, as followers of Christ, just how vital it is to maintain our relationship with Him. In John 15:5, Jesus says, “I am the vine; you are the branches. If a man remains in me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.”

Growing in intimacy with God requires us to be intentional, spending time with Him because it’s the most important conversation of our day. He cares. He listens. He responds.

Do you give God the first part part of your day? Just like giving the first fruits of your money to Him, why not give Him the first fruits of your day?

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Your Love Letter to God

Jesus replied: ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’This is the first and greatest commandment” Matthew 22:37 (NIV).

 Can you recall the last time you received a handwritten personal letter in your mailbox? I can’t.

Over lunch recently, a friend and I were discussing the lost art of letter writing. My friend commented on a box of letters written by her mother over the years. While the letters were not filled with anything important, they were a chronicle of what was going on in her parents’ lives at the time. “My mother wrote things that were not earth-shattering but a sharing of their lives,” she says. “When I go back and reread them occasionally, the words bring back such wonderful memories.”

Like me, my friend misses going to the mailbox to retrieve something besides a bill or junk mail, and maybe an occasional card. While some might complain about the price of a postage stamp, I think the cost is minimal compared to the thrill of someone taking the time to pen their thoughts on paper, place it an envelope and drop it in the mail. Although first class letters recently increased by a penny to 46 cents, I still think it’s a bargain.

In an age of cell phones, text messaging and e-mails, the longtime practice of writing letters to family and friends is becoming a thing of the past. Then, along came Twitter and those who tweet learned to express themselves in 140 characters—not words—or less.

Before the age of social media, people wrote genuine letters to their loved ones. Think of the history contained on the inked pages that document someone’s life. What of the letters written home to loved ones from the battlefields of war? I am sure the recipients treasured them, especially if their soldier never returned home.

When teaching high school, I would often receive a note, letter or card from one of my students or a fellow teacher. Although I have been retired from education since 2005, I still have those handwritten missives in a yellow file folder.

Deuteronomy 6:5-6 says, “Love the Lord your God with all your heartand with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts.”

Do you really love God with all your heart, with all your soul and all your strength? If you do, do you spend quality time with Him each day? When we love someone, we seek to spend time with that person as much as possible.

I begin each day reading the Bible and writing a love letter to God in my prayer journal. Since I started journaling 11 years ago, my intimacy with the Lord has grown. I now address Him in my journal as “Dear Abba Father.”

I challenge you to put God first in your life. Spend time with Him each morning. Write a personal love letter to your Heavenly Father. He loves to hear from His children.

Do you spend time with Your Heavenly Father each morning? Have you tried prayer journaling? If so, please feel free to share your experiences with me in the comment section below.
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What are you doing for Lent?

“Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you” James 4:8 (NRSV).

Do you desire a deeper prayer life? Why not dedicate Lent 2013 to trying a new spiritual discipline: prayer journaling? I have been keeping a prayer journal for more than 10 years.

If I could choose the most important differences in my life since I began keeping a journal each morning, it would be the following:

  • A peace like no other. When my world and the world around me is in turmoil, I know where my peace comes from.
  • The knowledge of who I am and whose I am. I spent most of my life living up to other people’s expectations. Now, I live for Him.
  • Contentment with who I am and what I have. Many of us live our lives in discontent and seek things outside of God to satisfy that longing that can only be filled in a relationship with Him. Material possessions will never satisfy.

For a limited time, until February 28, purchase a copy of “Journaling with Jesus: How to Draw Closer to God,” and the companion workbook, “The 40-Day Challenge,” for only $23, which includes postage. Contact me at carolaround@yahoo.com to find out how to get your copies.

For more information about my book, check out http://journalingwithjesus.com/about-the-book/ and read more about the benefits of prayer journaling by checking the archives to the right.

 

“If a journal answers one question, it is
‘What is God doing in my life?’”
–Jan Johnson, author of
Enjoying the Presence of God

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How Much Belongs to God?

“Know that the Lord is God.
It is He who made us,and we are His;
we are His people,the sheep of His pasture”—Psalm 100:3 (NIV).

“Is this your life?” was the title of one of my recent morning devotionals. The author’s focus for that day’s thought was “How much of my life belongs to God?” While visiting another Christian who reads the same collection of daily devotionals, the author said her friend remarked on the blessing she found in reading stories of faith from all over the world.

During their discussion, the author’s friend picked up a copy of the devotional magazine and asked, “Is this your life?” Startled, the author said the other woman’s question caused her to ask herself if God meant everything to her.

Later, she began to evaluate the depth of her commitment to God. She began to ask herself the following questions in her search for answers: Is God really my life, or just part of my life? How much do I spend in God’s presence? Is God squeezed into a few minutes in the morning and again before I sleep? Do I ask for God’s guidance when I plan for the future? Her answers to these questions caused her to feel uncomfortable. She said, “I was humbled by my friend’s question.”

While we make New Year’s resolutions to lose weight, save more money, spend more time with our families and set other worthwhile goals, how often do we evaluate our commitment to God, to give Him more of our time and to seek His guidance in our lives? My guess is not very often.

A newspaper article I clipped several months ago was headlined, “Can true solitude be found in a wired world?” The reporter posed this question in the lead: “When was the last time you were alone, and unwired? Really, truly by yourself. Just you and your thoughts—no cell phone, no tablet, no laptop.”

Is it difficult for you to find solitude? Seeking to be alone for a period is a choice. While some equate solitude with loneliness, those who crave quiet and carve out time to be alone with our Creator find peace. Jesus spent the early morning hours in prayer and solitude with His Father. After a busy day of teaching and healing, Jesus often sought solitude so He could pray, rest and renew.

Sue Monk Kidd, author of “God’s Joyful Surprise: Finding Yourself Loved,” has this to say about solitude. “Solitude is a time for ‘God and God alone.’ Who knows what can happen when we focus only on God. In solitude, we sense our deep oneness with God and keep company with Him. Solitude is breaking through my isolation into sharing and being in touch with my Creator. In fact, we can begin to heal our loneliness by transforming it into solitude.”

If someone asked you, “How much of your life belongs to God,” how would you answer? When was the last time you focused completely on God?

I always love hearing from my readers. Please feel free to leave a comment below.
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Just For Today

“This is the day the Lord has made.
We will rejoice and be glad in it” –Psalm 118:24 (NLT)

Did you know that 97 percent of New Year’s resolutions are never fulfilled? Oscar Wilde wrote, “A New Year’s resolution is something that goes in one year and out the other.”

Although 45 percent of us make New Year’s resolutions, many eventually ditch them, with 75 percent making it past the first week and 46 percent making it past the six-month mark.

According to research, most fail at following through because of unrealistic expectations, like “I’m going to lose 30 pounds by February 1.” While there is nothing wrong with making resolutions, when we set the bar too high, we are setting ourselves up for failure. What if we decided, just for today, we would do one thing to improve our physical, emotional or, more importantly, our spiritual health?

Author Jim Liebelt offers the following suggestions in hopes we might incorporate some into our daily lives.

Day 1:  Just for today, resolve to pray.

Day 2:  Just for today, resolve to say, “I love you” to someone.

Day 3:  Just for today, resolve to appreciate the world around you.

Day 4:  Just for today, resolve to save money.

Day 5:  Just for today, resolve to forgive someone.

Day 6:  Just for today, resolve not to compare yourself to anyone else.

Day 7:  Just for today, resolve to create some warmth in your home.

Day 8:  Just for today, resolve to exercise.

Day 9:   Just for today, resolve to read from the Bible.

Day 10:  Just for today, resolve to eat less.

Day 11:   Just for today, resolve to prepare for a future event.

Day 12:  Just for today, resolve not to demand the last word.

Day 13:  Just for today, resolve to make the most of that day.

Day 14:  Just for today, resolve to learn something new.

Day 15:  Just for today, resolve to eat a food you enjoy.

Day 16:  Just for today, resolve to say, “Please.”

Day 17:  Just for today, resolve to laugh.

Day 18:  Just for today, resolve to do something unusually nice for a family member.

Day 19:  Just for today, resolve to forgive yourself.

Day 20:  Just for today, resolve to sleep in.

Day 21:  Just for today, resolve to spend some time with family.

Day 22:  Just for today, resolve to be kind.

Day 23:  Just for today, resolve to give someone a choice. 

Day 24:  Just for today, resolve to make someone laugh. 

Day 25:  Just for today, resolve to do something nice for someone outside of your family. 

Day 26:  Just for today, resolve to say, “thank you.”

Day 27:  Just for today, resolve to pay someone a compliment.

Day 28:  Just for today, resolve to do something relaxing.

Day 29:  Just for today, resolve to do something nice for a complete stranger.

Day 30:  Just for today, resolve to do something out of the ordinary.

I would also add, just for today, let us rejoice and be glad in the day the Lord has made.

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Prayers are Powerful

I’d like to share this guest post written by João de Deus Brasil, a senior military officer from Brazil who, after being an atheist in his youth, was blessed to experience numerous spiritual phenomena that led him to return to his faith in God. A father and grandfather, João lives in Torres, Brazil, where he enjoys reading, studying, and writing.

Have you ever wondered how some people consistently grow in their relationships with God – how their faith is ever increasing? If you have, you are not alone.

Many people wish they could see their faith strengthened, but they don’t know what to do in order to achieve a new level. This may be because they have forgotten the teachings of Jesus and aren’t doing what he instructs. Simply put, Jesus teaches us that praying is essential and the absolute best way to develop a relationship with Him. “Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours” He say, in Mark 11:24, as well as “And whatever you ask in prayer, you will receive, if you have faith” in Matthew 21:22. 

These scripture passages enforce the idea that it is only through prayer that we will be able to strengthen our faith.  The more we pray, the more we are led to believe. It is something powerful and mysterious, but effective. We may not recognize changes immediately, but when we pray on a daily basis, our faith grows increasingly stronger.

It hasn’t been always easy for me to work for my relationship with God. I’ve had hard moments, when everything seemed senseless and meaningless. Yet, out of sheer stubbornness at times, I haven’t given up. Being aware of the fact that faith is rational has helped me to keep focused on the pursuit of a stronger faith. The following prayer is one I usually say to draw closer to God:

Jesus, Your faith was in the Heavenly Father, Your steadfastness being my living model! Kindly grant me the richness of such faith, To embrace Your Father as my true Provider, Having staunch belief in His eminent powers, And to remain loyal to Him until my last day. If my faith shifts as temporary waves, Rush to my rescue without any hesitation, Protecting others from my fleeting frailty. May Your Presence always be lively enjoyed, Enabling me to shine as a flame of faith. My faith  loyally reaches out to You!  

I sincerely hope my words will help you succeed in strengthening your faith in God and in the divine power you have been granted. God bless you!

Why I Believe in God: Atheism: A Self-Delusion by João de Deus Brasil is available at amazon.com.
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