What Do You Suppose God Wants?

“If you try to hang on to your life, you will lose it. But if you give up your life for my sake, you will save it. And what do you benefit if you gain the whole world but are yourself lost or destroyed?”—Luke 9:24-25 (NLT).

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Some people might be surprised to learn the world does not revolve around them. What? You mean it doesn’t!

As infants, we sure thought it did. We cried and someone tended to our needs. We got fed. Our diapers got changed. We were picked up and rocked to sleep. In my case, the rocking chair didn’t work for my eldest, so I had to dance him to sleep. I’ve known other parents who had to place their infant in a car seat and drive him repeatedly around the block until he dozed off.

However, some never outgrow this demanding behavior. If I whine enough, people will do what I want. If I stomp my foot, they’ll jump. If I pucker up, ready to burst into tears, they’ll do anything to keep me happy.

“We shine most brightly when we give ourselves away.”

Guess what! That’s not what God wants from His children. If we hang onto our lives, always seeking to please ourselves, we’ll never grow up.

In his book “It’s Not About Me,” Max Lucado writes, “When God looks at the center of the universe, he doesn’t look at you. When heaven’s stagehands direct the spotlight toward the star of the show, I need no sunglasses. No light falls on me. Lesser orbs, that’s us. Appreciated. Valued. Loved dearly. But central? Essential? Pivotal? Nope. Sorry.

“Perhaps our place is not at the center of the universe,” he adds. “As John Piper writes, ‘God does not exist to make much of us. We exist to make much of him.’”

Would You Drop Your Net and Follow Jesus?

“As Jesus was walking beside the Sea of Galilee, he saw two brothers, Simon called Peter and his brother Andrew. They were casting a net into the lake, for they were fishermen. ‘Come, follow me,’ Jesus said, ‘and I will send you out to fish for people.’ At once they left their nets and followed him”— Matthew 4:18-20(NIV).



Our Sunday school class is currently studying the gospel of Matthew. Recently, we read the passages about Jesus calling the first disciples to follow Him. We began to wonder why these working-class men would drop their fishing nets, walk away from their livelihood, their families and friends to follow someone they barely knew.

As we discussed the passages, I read my Bible commentary which explained Jesus had encountered Peter and Andrew before in the Jordan region, where Andrew (and perhaps Peter as well) had become a disciple of John the Baptist.

The commentary also explained that the two brothers had left John to follow Jesus for a time before returning to their fishing in Capernaum. Fishing wasn’t a hobby for these men. It is how they supported themselves and their families. Now, Jesus has shown up at the Sea of Galilee where he calls them to follow Him in long-term discipleship.

“You’re kidding, right Jesus?”

What would you do if Jesus showed up at your workplace or on your doorstep and asked you to drop everything to follow Him? Would you make excuses or would you follow?

“But Jesus, what about my family? Who is going to take care of them?”

“You’re kidding, right Jesus? You know I have other things I must attend to. I’m needed to lead the choir at church.” Or “I can’t Jesus. What would my friends and family say? They’ll think I’ve lost my mind.”

“Not me, Jesus. I’m not the right one. I have nothing to offer. Look at me—I’m old.” Or “I’m too young.”

When the New Wears Off Ask God to Renew Your Spirit

“Restore to me the joy of your salvation and grant me a willing spirit, to sustain me”—Psalm 51:12(NIV).

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We’re already halfway through the first month of 2016. Most entered this year with high hopes to start anew. Some are still sustained by that hope, while for others the new has already worn off.

Just as we’ve changed the calendar from one year to another, many of us vowed to make changes in our health, our jobs, our families, our finances. As the days have passed, however, many have struggled to keep their commitments. The new has worn off.

Feelings can’t be trusted, but the facts of God’s Word can.

Just like a new automobile elicits excitement with its ‘new-car’ smell, the thrill wears off when the payments come due. The latest and greatest gadgets we unwrapped under the Christmas tree last month failed to hold our interest as even newer technology appeared. The new has worn off.

If you bought exercise equipment or workout tapes, or joined a gym, you might still be committed to the new you. Statistics reveal that the second week of January is almost always the busiest of the year for gyms. However, by the second week of February, only 20 percent of new enrollees remain, according to Fitness Coach Darren Beattie, citing a Wall Street Journal article. The new has worn off.

I love shopping at thrift stores. I’m always amazed when I find items almost brand new and some even sporting the original price tags. I shake my head, grab a bargain and wonder why someone would get rid of a perfectly good blouse or other piece of clothing never worn. The new has worn off.

Make 2016 a Positive One

“But put God’s kingdom first. Do what he wants you to do. Then all those things will also be given to you”—Matthew 6:33(NIRV).


After reading many New Year’s posts on Facebook, I’ve come to the conclusion that most people are trying to remain positive in spite of personal trials and the constant spate of negative news with which we are bombarded with daily. However, I’ve noticed that most of those who have a confident outlook have one thing in common. They are believers and followers of Jesus Christ.

In a recent sermon, our pastor made the following statement, “The future is different when you have met the Living Christ.”

Faith + Optimism = Possibilities

One important lesson I’ve learned since I sought a serious relationship with Him is that being a Christ follower does not automatically insure you are free from trials. In fact, I can attest that my trials have increased. But, those trying times have stretched me spiritually, teaching me to trust Him even more.

How can we stay positive in a negative world as a New Year begins? How can we awaken each day in joyful anticipation instead of troubled doubt?

Make the Most of Your New Year

“Dear friend, I pray that you may enjoy good health and that all may go well with you, even as your soul is getting along well”—3 John 2(NIV).



A New Year has arrived and with it the usual resolutions to lose weight, get in shape and quit smoking. Some look for quick fixes through crash diets, new exercise crazes or so-called ‘magical’ pills while others seek a solution through surgery, bringing with it a host of possible complications and side effects.

Growing up in the 50s and 60s, I don’t recall seeing as many overweight people as is prevalent today. I also don’t remember seeing a fast-food restaurant on almost every corner. My mother was a stay-at-home mom who cooked healthy meals. When we did eat out, it was a treat. Today, eating out seems to be the norm as the choice of restaurants and fast-food places have grown as fast as our waistlines and hips.

Quit making excuses.

Instead of setting ourselves up for failure by making resolutions each January, what if we turned to scripture for a permanent solution to our health problems? What if we chose to do the following?

Just Let it Go

“Anyone who belongs to Christ is a new person. The past is forgotten, and everything is new”— 2 Corinthians 5:17 (CEV).


Although I’ve not seen it, I’ve heard the lyrics to the song associated with Disney’s popular animated movie, “Frozen.” Sung by little girls who have seen the film, the song’s title is “Let it Go.”

As I was thinking about the New Year, I looked up the lyrics to the catchy tune. When I read them, I thought, “How appropriate for anyone who wants to let go of the past and embrace the new?”

Recently, I was having lunch with a couple of friends. As usual, we shared several belly laughs when we revealed some of our deepest desires and thoughts—just girl talk. While I can’t recall how the subject led to our past, I found myself confessing some of the more “ornery” things I’d done before moving to Claremore 10 years ago.

The beginning of a new year is a good time to examine our lives.

Since my friends have only known the person I am now, they were surprised by my confessions. While those escapades weren’t necessarily earth-shattering, they were definitely a part of the person I was before Jesus got ahold of me.

When we belong to Him, we become a new creation. He forgets our past. Everything becomes new. Even the Old Testament reminds us in Isaiah 43:18 to “Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past (NIV).

The beginning of a new year is a good time to examine our lives and let go of those things holding us back from spiritual growth. Growing spiritually requires us to be intentional.

No room in the inn; what about your heart?

“And she brought forth her firstborn Son, and wrapped Him in swaddling clothes and laid Him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn”—Luke 2:7(KJ21).



With a few exceptions, most babies today enter the world in our country in sanitized surroundings at a hospital. However, over 2,000 years ago, a young couple named Mary and Joseph didn’t have that choice. Expecting the birth of God’s Son, they were even turned away from the inn.

Even if you’ve never read the Bible, the story of Jesus’ birth in a stable is familiar to most. The scene of Christ’s entry into this world was not sanitary. The stable would have been dirty and the smells unappealing. According to scripture, His bed was a wooden feeding trough for animals.


His purpose for being is reflected in the simplicity of His holy birth.


While most nativity displays depict a quaint, pastoral scene, the reality is our Lord Jesus was actually homeless that first Christmas. There was no room at the inn.

About 25 years ago, two friends attending a Christmas party in Camarillo, California, were discussing their varied collection of nativity scenes. As they talked, they realized their vast collections could be used to benefit others, especially the less fortunate. Remembering the first Christmas and the homeless couple expecting the birth of their firstborn Son, they decided it would be appropriate for the proceeds to go to the homeless.