What does prayer mean to you?

“This, then, is how you should pray:“‘Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.’” Matthew 6:8-10 (NIV)

When they asked how, Jesus taught his disciples to pray. The Lord’s Prayer, found in Matthew 6:8-14, reveals our Savior’s heart. What does prayer mean to you? Do you think it’s a mysterious practice reserved for the religiously devout?

Prayer is simply a conversation with your Abba Father. Minister and author, Josh McDowell, has this to say about prayer: “Prayer is talking with God. God knows your heart and is not so concerned with your words as He is with the attitude of your heart.”

For some, even Christians, prayer has become an afterthought, done only while sitting in a church pew, at the dinner table or beside a child’s bed before sleep. Sometimes, prayer is offered as a wish of one’s heartfelt desire with expectations of God answering like a genie inside a magic lamp.

If you’re seeking an intimate, powerful transformation in your relationship with God, then your prayer life must be more than asking for things. Praying is not just setting aside a special time to spend with Him; it is an ongoing conversation with Him throughout your busy day. While you are at work, eating, conversing with others, waiting for appointments or on the run from one place to another, you can be in prayer. Thank Him continually for the blessings in your life, even the difficult times. They help you to grow closer to Him.

However, starting the day with Him is vital for your spiritual growth. When I sit down with my Bible and prayer journal each morning, I am consciously choosing to give Him the first part of my day. It’s the same principle as tithing. Giving Him the first fruits of your day reveals your priorities.

Prayer is a time to remind yourself that everything you are, and everything you have, comes through the power, grace and mercy of the one true God. Communion through prayer allows a deeper connection between His Word, His Holy Spirit and yourself, allowing seeds of faith to be firmly planted within your being.

How does a conversation with God begin? Get quiet. Seek a special place where you can open your mind, soul and spirit to what He has to say to you, both in that still, small voice, and within the pages of your Bible. Seeking Him requires you to listen more than you speak. Ask Him to reveal Himself to you. Remember what Josh McDowell said, “God knows your heart and is not so concerned with your words as He is with the attitude of your heart.”

It’s about your heart connection to the One who loves you more than life itself. We must remember that it’s not about you and it’s not about me. It’s about God and His will. Then, you will realize that your prayers will touch the heart of the One for whom nothing is impossible.

More posts on prayer:

12 Ways to Jump-Start Prayer

9 Tips from Jesus on Prayer

Instantly Answered

Let’s Pray for Our President

5 Ways to Grow Your Faith

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No flowers, no candy, no problem

“For great is your love, reaching to the heavens;
your faithfulness reaches to the skies.” –Psalm 57:10

Another Valentine’s Day has come and gone. Flowers will wither, candy will be eaten, cards will be tossed or treasured, and those who received nothing will breathe a sigh of relief that the day for lovers is over.

I used to be one of those. Since 2001 I have been single. At first, it bothered me that I had no significant other with whom to share the day of romantic love, which actually has its origins in various legends, including that of the martyred saint, Valentine, who was a Christian.

Did you know that approximately 150 million Valentine’s Day cards are exchanged annually, making Valentine’s Day the second most popular card-sending holiday after Christmas? That boggles my mind.

One thing, however, that I have learned about this day of romantic love is that I no longer dread it, even though I still don’t have a significant other. I don’t miss the flowers, the candy or the card. Why?

I have come to realize that humans will disappoint us. Because we are all desperate to love and be loved, we search for meaning and significance. But we search for those things in all the wrong places. We think another human can make us happy. Ah, but there’s the rub. We place our hopes and dreams in another person who will ultimately not live up to our expectations.

I have learned that it is only through a personal relationship with my Savior that I can experience authentic love. His love replaces thoughts of rejection and banishes feelings of abandonment. Through the priceless gift of God’s sacrifice, we can finally comprehend the most amazing truth. We were planned before we were ever conceived in our mother’s wombs. We were created in HIS heart. We were wanted. “For God so loved the world, that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.” John 3:16

Isn’t that a reason to celebrate?

 

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Everyday Graces

Sometimes a daily devotional strikes my soul to the very core because I think God knew I needed to read it that particular day. Has that every happened to you? I wanted to share Julie Clinton’s Everyday Graces with you today because too many times, I think we are so busy we forget to notice. Enjoy Julie’s message today. I know I did.

“From the fullness of His grace we have all received one blessing after another.” John 1:16

Most of the time we refer to the gift of salvation as a gift of grace. But God’s grace also comes in tiny little packages marked “FREE GIFT” inside. Each day God presents gifts of His grace. Most of the time we take them for granted.

Take some time to appreciate some of these gifts:

  • freedom to be real
  • quiet moments
  • walking
  • a friend who listens
  • a sunrise
  • the brilliant colors of spring
  • knowing you’re loved
  • a child’s hug

Start looking at each of these as little dreams come true. God’s dream for us unfolds in thousands of little ways through everyday graces He places in our lives.

Too often we are just too busy to notice. Or, we are so eager to have the big dream come true we forget to watch for little things that are the dream coming true.

Most Christians can trust God for Heaven – Eternity with Him, but we can’t trust Him for everyday life.  Start seeing and living differently…it will turn your life around!

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He Knows What He’s Doing

“I know what I’m doing. I have it all planned out—plans to take care of you, not abandon you, plans to give you the future you hope for.” Jeremiah 29:11 (MSG)

In conversations with two different friends today, I was reminded of how big our God is and how we often forget that He is the One in control. Because I used to be the poster child for “control freaks,” I understand when I see others who struggle to completely trust God with all aspects of their lives.

It has been a journey of over 10 years–and I’m not there yet–but I have come to see life at age 58, as an adventure. His mercies are new just as the day dawns and brings hope. We can’t live without either…His mercies and hope.

In today’s rapidly changing world, many of us live in fear. Unemployment is high and so are gas prices. People have lost their homes. Families are relying on relatives and the kindness of churches and other non-profits to help put food on the table. Some don’t know when they will eat again. Life is uncertain.

Ben Franklin was once quoted as saying “but in the world nothing can be said to be certain except death and taxes.”

I would add that there is one more thing of which we can be certain. Our God loves and has plans for each one of us. He will take care of us and will not abandon any of His sheep. Our future is in His hands.

He knows what He’s doing. Do you trust Him?

 

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Everything You Need

I wanted to share the following devotional by Max Lucado because he is one of the most inspirational pastors I know and I love reading his books. I have been blessed to hear him speak at a Women of Faith conference and hear him preach at his home church in San Antonio. At left is a photo of Mr. Lucado with our 2008 Rio Bravo, Mexico mission team. (I’m on the right of Max.) We spent the night in San Antonio and attended church services at Max’s church before continuing our journey to Mexico.
by Max Lucado

Are you hoping that a change in circumstances will bring a change in your attitude? If so, you are in prison, and you need to learn a secret of traveling light. What you have in your Shepherd is greater than what you don’t have in life.

May I meddle for a moment? What is the one thing separating you from joy? How do you fill in this blank: “I will be happy when ________________”? When I am healed. When I am promoted. When I am married. When I am single. When I am rich. How would you finish that statement?

Now, with your answer firmly in mind, answer this. If your ship never comes in, if your dream never comes true, if the situation never changes, could you be happy? If not, then you are sleeping in the cold cell of discontent. You are in prison. And you need to know what you have in your Shepherd.

You have a God who hears you, the power of love behind you, the Holy Spirit within you, and all of heaven ahead of you. If you have the Shepherd, you have grace for every sin, direction for every turn, a candle for every corner, and an anchor for every storm. You have everything you need.

How would you fill in the blank? Respond to this post below.

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10 Relationship Tips for the Holidays

I wanted to share the following with my readers. Written by Pam Farrell, I think it provides wonderful guidance for this holiday season.

C – Center your heart on the deeper meaning of the holidays. This will help everyone become easier to get along with because the heart of the holiday will remain intact.

H – Hear what your friends and family are voicing as their stress, and listen carefully to them—a gift that will lower their stress.

R – Reach out as a family to help others in order to keep the proper perspective on what is really important in life.

I – Invest in memories, not material goods. Make time for family baking, tree decorating, or board games.

S – Speak your love in words. The best gift you can give is for a person to hear their value and worth from your lips.

T – Take time for romance. The greatest gift you can give your children is a happy marriage.

M – Make time to reach out to extended family. Visit or call grandparents, aunts, and uncles.

A – Assume nothing; ask those who are celebrating with you what their expectations are, and communicate the plan clearly so people feel informed.

S – Stay flexible. Don’t be a Christmas boss, ordering family around. Instead slow the pace, gather consensus, and give options so that you create an environment of connecting and sharing.

Excerpted from Simplify Your Holidays © 2008 Marcia Ramsland.

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I Believe in Miracles

I wanted to share the following with my readers because I believe in the everyday miracle of HIS love. Do you?

Believe in Miracles
by Mary Lou Carney

“It’s a miracle!” Those words are sure to get attention wherever they’re uttered. After all, most of our lives are spent with things happening in predictable ways: summer follows spring; we wake from sleep each morning; birds sing and rabbits hop. We operate within the laws of the universe, knowing that sunsets and sunrises are as inevitable as allergy season.

The Gospels record more than three dozen miracles centered around Jesus, including:

· The virgin birth (Luke 1:26-38)

· Changing water into wine (John 2:1-11)

· Healing many who were sick with various diseases (Matthew 9:1-8; Mark 3:1-6; Luke 8:43-48)

· Raising the dead (Luke 7:11-17; Luke 8:49-56; John 11:1-44)

· Calming the stormy sea (Matthew 8:23-27)

· Feeding 5,000 men and their families (Matthew 14:16-21)

· Walking on water (John 6:16-21)

· Defeating death with his own resurrection (Matthew 28)

But what about today? Do miracles still exist? Absolutely! Christian people around the world encourage each other with true stories of God’s power to protect and heal.

The biggest miracle of all, though, is one we experience daily: God’s love for every one of us — a love that is undeserved but oh-so-very real. “See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!” (1 John 3:1).

Why has God chosen to love and adopt us flawed creatures? It’s a mystery…and a miracle.

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